served to dress her hair, another her neck, a third
her hood. Ahasuerus would [5551]have given Esther
half his empire, and [5552]Herod bid Herodias “ask
what she would, she should have it.” Caligula
gave 100,000 sesterces to his courtesan at first word,
to buy her pins, and yet when he was solicited by
the senate to bestow something to repair the decayed
walls of Rome for the commonwealth’s good, he
would give but 6000 sesterces at most. [5553]Dionysius,
that Sicilian tyrant, rejected all his privy councillors,
and was so besotted on Mirrha his favourite and mistress,
that he would bestow no office, or in the most weightiest
business of the kingdom do aught without her especial
advice, prefer, depose, send, entertain no man, though
worthy and well deserving, but by her consent; and
he again whom she commended, howsoever unfit, unworthy,
was as highly approved. Kings and emperors, instead
of poems, build cities; Adrian built Antinoa in Egypt,
besides constellations, temples, altars, statues, images,
&c., in the honour of his Antinous. Alexander
bestowed infinite sums to set out his Hephestion to
all eternity. [5554]Socrates professeth himself love’s
servant, ignorant in all arts and sciences, a doctor
alone in love matters,
et quum alienarum rerum
omnium scientiam diffiteretur, saith [5555]Maximus
Tyrius,
his sectator, hujus negotii professor,
&c., and this he spake openly, at home and abroad,
at public feasts, in the academy,
in Pyraeo, Lycaeo,
sub Platano, &c., the very bloodhound of beauty,
as he is styled by others. But I conclude there
is no end of love’s symptoms, ’tis a bottomless
pit. Love is subject to no dimensions; not to
be surveyed by any art or engine: and besides,
I am of [5556]Haedus’ mind, “no man can
discourse of love matters, or judge of them aright,
that hath not made trial in his own person,”
or as Aeneas Sylvius [5557]adds, “hath not a
little doted, been mad or lovesick himself.”
I confess I am but a novice, a contemplator only,
Nescio quid sit amor nec amo[5558]—I
have a tincture; for why should I lie, dissemble or
excuse it, yet
homo sum, &c., not altogether
inexpert in this subject,
non sum praeceptor amandi,
and what I say, is merely reading,
ex altorum forsan
ineptiis, by mine own observation, and others’
relation.
MEMB. IV.
Prognostics of Love-Melancholy.
What fires, torments, cares, jealousies, suspicions,
fears, griefs, anxieties, accompany such as are in
love, I have sufficiently said: the next question
is, what will be the event of such miseries, what they
foretell. Some are of opinion that this love cannot
be cured, Nullis amor est medicabilis herbis,
it accompanies them to the [5559]last, Idem amor
exitio est pecori pecorisque magistro. “The
same passion consume both the sheep and the shepherd,”
and is so continuate, that by no persuasion almost
it may be relieved. [5560]"Bid me not love,”
said Euryalus, “bid the mountains come down
into the plains, bid the rivers run back to their
fountains; I can as soon leave to love, as the sun
leave his course;”