&c.,[4538] but when they began to vary, none so absurd
as Scaliger, so vile and base, as his books
de
Burdonum familia, and other satirical invectives
may witness, Ovid,
in Ibin, Archilocus himself
was not so bitter. Another great tie or cause
of love, is consanguinity: parents are clear
to their children, children to their parents, brothers
and sisters, cousins of all sorts, as a hen and chickens,
all of a knot: every crow thinks her own bird
fairest. Many memorable examples are in this kind,
and ’tis
portenti simile, if they do
not: [4539]"a mother cannot forget her child:”
Solomon so found out the true owner; love of parents
may not be concealed, ’tis natural, descends,
and they that are inhuman in this kind, are unworthy
of that air they breathe, and of the four elements;
yet many unnatural examples we have in this rank,
of hard-hearted parents, disobedient children, of
[4540]disagreeing brothers, nothing so common.
The love of kinsmen is grown cold, [4541]"many kinsmen”
(as the saying is) “few friends;” if thine
estate be good, and thou able,
par pari referre,
to requite their kindness, there will be mutual correspondence,
otherwise thou art a burden, most odious to them above
all others. The last object that ties man and
man, is comeliness of person, and beauty alone, as
men love women with a wanton eye: which [Greek:
kat’ exochaen] is termed heroical, or love-melancholy.
Other loves (saith Picolomineus) are so called with
some contraction, as the love of wine, gold, &c., but
this of women is predominant in a higher strain, whose
part affected is the liver, and this love deserves
a longer explication, and shall be dilated apart in
the next section.
SUBSECT. III.—Honest Objects of
Love.
Beauty is the common object of all love, [4542]"as
jet draws a straw, so doth beauty love:”
virtue and honesty are great motives, and give as fair
a lustre as the rest, especially if they be sincere
and right, not fucate, but proceeding from true form,
and an incorrupt judgment; those two Venus’
twins, Eros and Anteros, are then most firm and fast.
For many times otherwise men are deceived by their
flattering gnathos, dissembling camelions, outsides,
hypocrites that make a show of great love, learning,
pretend honesty, virtue, zeal, modesty, with affected
looks and counterfeit gestures: feigned protestations
often steal away the hearts and favours of men, and
deceive them, specie virtutis et umbra, when
as revera and indeed, there is no worth or
honesty at all in them, no truth, but mere hypocrisy,
subtlety, knavery, and the like. As true friends
they are, as he that Caelius Secundus met by the highway
side; and hard it is in this temporising age to distinguish
such companions, or to find them out. Such gnathos
as these for the most part belong to great men, and
by this glozing flattery, affability, and such like
philters, so dive and insinuate into their favours,
that they are taken for men of excellent worth, wisdom,