we have acquired, together with the facility we have
gained in the use of our powers, makes it then more
than ever easy and interesting to us to pursue the
study of any subject. A thousand things become
clear which were formerly enveloped in obscurity,
and results are obtained which give a feeling of difficulties
overcome. From long experience of men, we cease
to expect much from them; we find that, on the whole,
people do not gain by a nearer acquaintance; and that—apart
from a few rare and fortunate exceptions—we
have come across none but defective specimens of human
nature which it is advisable to leave in peace.
We are no more subject to the ordinary illusions of
life; and as, in individual instances, we soon see
what a man is made of, we seldom feel any inclination
to come into closer relations with him. Finally,
isolation—our own society—has
become a habit, as it were a second nature to us,
more especially if we have been on friendly terms with
it from our youth up. The love of solitude which
was formerly indulged only at the expense of our desire
for society, has now come to be the simple quality
of our natural disposition—the element proper
to our life, as water to a fish. This is why
anyone who possesses a unique individuality—unlike
others and therefore necessarily isolated—feels
that, as he becomes older, his position is no longer
so burdensome as when he was young.
For, as a matter of fact, this very genuine privilege
of old age is one which can be enjoyed only if a man
is possessed of a certain amount of intellect; it
will be appreciated most of all where there is real
mental power; but in some degree by every one.
It is only people of very barren and vulgar nature
who will be just as sociable in their old age as they
were in their youth. But then they become troublesome
to a society to which they are no longer suited, and,
at most, manage to be tolerated; whereas, they were
formerly in great request.
There is another aspect of this inverse proportion
between age and sociability—the way in
which it conduces to education. The younger that
people are, the more in every respect they have to
learn; and it is just in youth that Nature provides
a system of mutual education, so that mere intercourse
with others, at that time of life, carries instruction
with it. Human society, from this point of view,
resembles a huge academy of learning, on the Bell
and Lancaster system, opposed to the system of education
by means of books and schools, as something artificial
and contrary to the institutions of Nature. It
is therefore a very suitable arrangement that, in
his young days, a man should be a very diligent student
at the place of learning provided by Nature herself.