having comprehended marriage, felt herself
polluted
by contact with her husband, and who, having sought
her ideal elsewhere, found the
disillusions
of adultery. This word has shocked you; in the
place of
disillusions, you would have wished
pollution of adultery. This tribunal shall
be the judge. As for me, if I had depicted the
same personage I would have said to her: Poor
woman! if you believe that your husband’s kisses
are monotonous and wearisome, if you have found only
platitudes—this word has been especially
brought to our notice—the platitudes of
marriage—if you seem to see pollution in
a union where love does not preside, take care, for
your dreams are an illusion, and you will one day
be cruelly deceived. But this man, gentlemen,
who knows how to speak strongly, makes use of the
word pollution to express what we would have called
disillusion, and he has used the true word, although
vague to him who can bring to it no intelligence.
I would have liked better his not speaking so strongly,
his not pronouncing the word
pollution, but
rather averting the woman from deception, from disillusion,
and saying to her: Where you believe you will
find love, you will find only libertinism; where you
think you will find happiness, there is only bitterness.
A husband who goes tranquilly about his affairs, who
kisses you, puts on his house cap and eats his soup
with you, is a prosaic husband revolting to you; you
aspire to a man who will love you, idolize you; poor
child! that man will be a libertine who will have
taken you for a minute for the sake of playing with
you. There will be some illusion about it the
first time, perhaps the second; you may come back
home joyous, singing the song of adultery. “I
have a lover!” but the third time you will not
wish to go to him, for the disillusion will have come.
The man you have dreamed of will have lost all his
prestige; you will have found again in love the platitudes
of marriage, and this time with scorn, disdain, disgust
and poignant remorse.
This, gentlemen, is what M. Flaubert has said, what
he has painted, what is in each line of his book;
and this is what distinguishes his work from all other
works of the kind. Under his hand, the great
irregularities of society figure on each page, and
adultery walks abroad full of disgust and shame.
He has brought into the common relations of life the
most powerful teaching that can be given to a young
woman. And Heaven knows that to those of our
young women who do not find in lofty, honest principle
and stern religion enough to keep them steady in the
accomplishment of their duties as mothers, or who do
not find it in that resignation and practical science
of life which bids us accommodate ourselves to what
we have, but who carry their dreams to the outside
(and the most honest, the most pure of our young women,
in the prosaic life of their households, are sometimes
tormented by that which is going on outside), a book
like this would bring but one reflection. Of that
you may be sure. And this is what M. Flaubert
has intended.