concert with other women of quality, whose birth and
leisure only serve to render them the most useless
and most worthless part of the creation. There
is hardly a character in the world more despicable,
or more liable to universal ridicule, than that of
a learned woman; those words imply, according to the
received sense, a talking, impertinent, vain, and
conceited creature. I believe nobody will deny
that learning may have this effect, but it must be
a very superficial degree of it. Erasmus was
certainly a man of great learning, and good sense,
and he seems to have my opinion of it, when he says
Foemina qui [sic] vere sapit, non videtur
sibi sapere; contra, quae cum nihil sapiat sibi videtur
sapere, ea demum bis stulta est. The Abbe
Bellegarde gives a right reason for women’s
talking overmuch: they know nothing, and every
outward object strikes their imagination, and produces
a multitude of thoughts, which, if they knew more,
they would know not worth their thinking of. I
am not now arguing for an equality of the two sexes.
I do not doubt God and nature have thrown us into
an inferior rank, we are a lower part of the creation,
we owe obedience and submission to the superior sex,
and any woman who suffers her vanity and folly to
deny this, rebels against the law of the Creator,
and indisputable order of nature; but there is a worse
effect than this, which follows the careless education
given to women of quality, its being so easy for any
man of sense, that finds it either his interest or
his pleasure, to corrupt them. The common method
is, to begin by attacking their religion: they
bring them a thousand fallacious arguments, which
their excessive ignorance hinders them from refuting:
and I speak now from my own knowledge and conversation
among them, there are more atheists among the fine
ladies than the loosest sort of rakes; and the same
ignorance that generally works out into excess of
superstition, exposes them to the snares of any who
have a fancy to carry them to t’other extreme.
I have made my excuses already too long, and will
conclude in the words of Erasmus:—Vulgus
sentit quod lingua Latina, non convenit foeminis,
quia parum facit ad tuendam illarum pundicitiam, quoniam
rarum et insolitum est foeminam scire Latinam; attamen
consuetudo omnium malarum rerum magistra. Decorum
est foeminam in Germania nata [sic] discere
Gallice, ut loquatur cum his qui sciunt Gallice;
cur igitur habetur indecorum discere Latine, ut quotidie
confabuletur cum tot autoribus tam facundis, tam eruditis,
tam sapientibus, tam fides consultoribus. Certe
mihi quantulumcunque cerebri est, malim in bonis studiis
consumere, quam in precibus sine mente dictis, in
pernoctibus conviviis, in exhauriendis, capacibus pateris,
&c."
This was not the sort of letter that in the opening years of the eighteenth century even Bishops received from young ladies of rank, who usually took their pleasure in other and lighter ways. Lady Mary, however, loved to exercise her pen. She later composed some imitations of Ovid, and tried her hand at one or two romances in the French manner. She thus acquired a facility of expression that stood her in good stead when she came to write those letters that constitute her principal claim to fame.