undoubtedly find pain; whoever will pursue ease will
as certainly find pleasures. The world’s
esteem is the highest gratification of human vanity;
and that is more easily obtained in a moderate fortune
than an overgrown one, which is seldom possessed,
never gained, without envy. I say esteem; for,
as to applause, it is a youthful pursuit, never to
be forgiven after twenty, and naturally succeeds the
childish desire of catching the setting sun, which
I can remember running very hard to do: a fine
thing truly if it could be caught; but experience
soon shows it to be impossible. A wise and honest
man lives to his own heart, without that silly splendour
that makes him a prey to knaves, and which commonly
ends in his becoming one of the fraternity. I
am very glad to hear Lord Bute’s decent economy
sets him above anything of that kind. I wish
it may become national. A collective body of
men differs very little from a single man; frugality
is the foundation of generosity. I have often
been complimented on the English heroism, who have
thrown away so many millions, without any prospect
of advantage to themselves, purely to succour a distressed
princess. I never could hear these praises without
some impatience; they sounded to me like panegyrics
made by the dependents on the Duke of Newcastle and
poor Lord Oxford, bubbled when they were commended,
and laughed at when undone. Some late events
will, I hope, open our eyes: we shall see we
are an island, and endeavour to extend our commerce
rather than the Quixote reputation of redressing wrongs
and placing diadems on heads that should be equally
indifferent to us. When time has ripened mankind
into common sense, the name of conqueror will be an
odious title. I could easily prove that, had
the Spaniards established a trade with the Americans,
they would have enriched their country more than by
the addition of twenty-two kingdoms, and all the mines
they now work—I do not say possess; since,
though they are the proprietors, others enjoy the
profit.”
Mary’s letters at this period of her life are
so entertaining that a few may well be inserted here
for the sheer pleasure of reading them.
TO THE COUNTESS OF BUTE
“Padua, September 30, 1757.
“Lord Bute has been so obliging as to let me
know your safe delivery, and the birth of another
daughter; may she be as meritorious in your eyes as
you are in mine! I can wish nothing better to
you both, though I have some reproaches to make you.
Daughter! daughter! don’t call names; you are
always abusing my pleasures, which is what no mortal
will bear. Trash, lumber, sad stuff, are the
titles you give to my favourite amusement. If
I called a white staff a stick of wood, a gold key
gilded brass, and the ensigns of illustrious orders
coloured strings, this may be philosophically true,
but would be very ill received. We have all our
playthings: happy are they that can be contented