stolen from Mr. Waller. I remember, when I was
a girl, I saved one of my companions from destruction,
who communicated to me an epistle she was quite charmed
with. As she had a natural good taste, she observed
the lines were not so smooth as Prior’s or Pope’s,
but had more thought and spirit than any of theirs.
She was wonderfully delighted with such a demonstration
of her lover’s sense and passion, a little pleased
with her own charms, that had force enough to inspire
such elegancies. In the midst of this triumph
I showed her that they were taken from Randolph’s
poems, and the unfortunate transcriber was dismissed
with the scorn he deserved. To say truth, the
poor plagiary was very unlucky to fall into my hands;
that author being no longer in fashion, would have
escaped any one of less universal reading than myself.
You should encourage your daughter to talk over with
you what she reads; and, as you are very capable of
distinguishing, take care she does not mistake pert
folly for wit and humour, or rhyme for poetry, which
are the common errors of young people, and have a train
of ill consequences. The second caution to be
given her (and which is most absolutely necessary)
is to conceal whatever learning she attains, with
as much solicitude as she would hide crookedness or
lameness; the parade of it can only serve to draw
on her the envy, and consequently the most inveterate
hatred, of all he and she fools, which will certainly
be at least three parts in four of all her acquaintance.
The use of knowledge in our sex, besides the amusement
of solitude, is to moderate the passions, and learn
to be contented with a small expense, which are the
certain effects of a studious life; and it may be preferable
even to that fame which men have engrossed to themselves,
and will not suffer us to share. You will tell
me I have not observed this rule myself; but you are
mistaken: it is only inevitable accident that
has given me any reputation that way. I have
always carefully avoided it, and ever thought it a
misfortune. The explanation of this paragraph
would occasion a long digression, which I will not
trouble you with, it being my present design only
to say what I think useful for the instruction of
my granddaughter, which I have much at heart.
If she has the same inclination (I should say passion)
for learning that I was born with, history, geography,
and philosophy will furnish her with materials to
pass away cheerfully a longer life than is allotted
to mortals. I believe there are few heads capable
of making Sir I. Newton’s calculations, but
the result of them is not difficult to be understood
by a moderate capacity. Do not fear this should
make her affect the character of Lady——,
or Lady——, or Mrs.——:
those women are ridiculous, not because they have
learning but because they have it not. One thinks
herself a complete historian, after reading Echard’s
Roman History; another a profound philosopher, having
got by heart some of Pope’s unintelligible essays;
and a third an able divine, on the strength of Whitefield’s
sermons: thus you hear them screaming politics
and controversy.