distinguished by the name of Wise William. I have
heard Lord Bute’s father mentioned as an extraordinary
genius, though he had not many opportunities of showing
it; and his uncle, the present Duke of Argyll, has
one of the best heads I ever knew. I will therefore
speak to you as supposing Lady Mary not only capable,
but desirous of learning; in that case by all means
let her be indulged in it. You will tell me I
did not make it a part of your education: your
prospect was very different from hers. As you
had no defect either in mind or person to hinder, and
much in your circumstances to attract, the highest
offers, it seemed your business to learn how to live
in the world, as it is hers to know how to be easy
out of it. It is the common error of builders
and parents to follow some plan they think beautiful
(and perhaps is so), without considering that nothing
is beautiful that is displaced. Hence we see so
many edifices raised that the raisers can never inhabit,
being too large for their fortunes. Vistas are
laid open over barren heaths, and apartments contrived
for a coolness very agreeable in Italy, but killing
in the north of Britain: thus every woman endeavours
to breed her daughter a fine lady, qualifying her
for a station in which she will never appear, and
at the same time incapacitating her for that retirement
to which she is destined. Learning, if she has
a real taste for it, will not only make her contented,
but happy in it. No entertainment is so cheap
as reading, nor any pleasure so lasting. She
will not want new fashions, nor regret the loss of
expensive diversions, or variety of company, if she
can be amused with an author in her closet. To
render this amusement extensive, she should be permitted
to learn the languages. I have heard it lamented
that boys lose so many years in mere learning of words:
this is no objection to a girl, whose time is not
so precious: she cannot advance herself in any
profession, and has therefore more hours to spare;
and as you say her memory is good, she will be very
agreeably employed this way. There are two cautions
to be given on this subject: first, not to think
herself learned when she could read Latin, or even
Greek. Languages are more properly to be called
vehicles of learning than learning itself, as may
be observed in many schoolmasters, who, though perhaps
critics in grammar, are the most ignorant fellows
upon earth. True knowledge consists in knowing
things, not words. I would wish her no further
a linguist than to enable her to read books in their
originals, that are often corrupted, and always injured,
by translations. Two hours’ application
every morning will bring this about much sooner than
you can imagine, and she will have leisure enough
besides to run over the English poetry, which is a
more important part of a woman’s education than
it is generally supposed. Many a young damsel
has been ruined by a fine copy of verses, which she
would have laughed at if she had known it had been