But the distinguishing glory of chivalry was devotion to the female sex.  Respect for woman was born in the German forests before the Roman empire fell.  It was the best trait of the Germanic barbarians; but under the institution of chivalry this natural respect was ripened into admiration and gallantry.  “Love of God and the ladies” was enjoined as a single duty.  The knight ever came to the rescue of a woman in danger or distress, provided she was a lady.  Nothing is better attested than the chivalric devotion to woman in a feudal castle.  The name of a mistress of the heart was never mentioned but in profound respect.  Even pages were required to choose objects of devotion, to whom they were to be loyal unto death.  Woman presided in the feudal castle, where she exercised a proper restraint.  She bestowed the prize of valor at tournaments and tilts.  To insult a lady was a lasting disgrace,—­or to reveal her secrets.  For the first time in history, woman became the equal partner of her husband.  She was his companion often in the chase, gaily mounted on her steed.  She always dined with him, and was the presiding genius of the castle.  She was made regent of kingdoms, heir of crowns, and joint manager of great estates.  She had the supreme management of her household, and was consulted in every matter of importance.  What an insignificant position woman filled at Athens compared with that in the feudal castle!  How different the estimate of woman among the Pagan poets from that held by the Provencal poets!  What a contrast to Juvenal is Sordello!  The lady of a baronial hall deemed it an insult to be addressed in the language of gallantry, except in that vague and poetic sense in which every knight selected some lady as the object of his dutiful devotion.  She disdained the attentions of the most potent prince if his addresses were not honorable.  Nor would she bestow her love on one of whom she was not proud.  She would not marry a coward or a braggart, even if he were the owner of ten thousand acres.  The knight was encouraged to pay his address to any lady if he was personally worthy of her love, for chivalry created a high estimate of individual merit.  The feudal lady ignored all degrees of wealth within her own rank.  She was as tender and compassionate as she was heroic.  She was treated as a superior, rather than as an equal.  There was a poetical admiration among the whole circle of knights.  A knight without an object of devotion was as “a ship without a rudder, a horse without a bridle, a sword without a hilt, a sky without a star.”  Even a Don Quixote must have his Dulcinea, as well as horse and armor and squire.  Dante impersonates the spirit of the Middle Ages in his adoration of Beatrice.  The ancient poets coupled the praises of women with the praises of wine.  Woman, under the influence of chivalry, became the star of worship, an object of idolatry.  We read of few divorces in the Middle Ages, or of separations, or desertions, or even alienations;