It would seem, however, that he was born in London about the year 1118 or 1119, and that his father, Gilbert Becket, was probably a respectable merchant and sheriff, or portreeve, of London, and was a Norman.  His parents died young, leaving him not well provided for; but being beautiful and bright he was sent to school in an abbey, and afterwards to Oxford.  From Oxford he went into a house of business in London for three years, and contrived to attract the notice of Theobald, Archbishop of Canterbury, who saw his talents, sent him to Paris, and thence to Bologna to study the canon law, which was necessary to a young man who would rise in the world.  He was afterwards employed by Theobald in confidential negotiations.  The question of the day in England was whether Stephen’s son (Eustace) or Matilda’s son (Henry of Anjou) was the true heir to the crown, it being settled that Stephen should continue to rule during his lifetime, and that Henry should peaceably follow him; which happened in a little more than a year.  Becket had espoused the side of Henry.

The reign of Henry II., during which Becket’s memorable career took place, was an important one.  He united, through his mother Matilda, the blood of the old Saxon kings with that of the Norman dukes.  He was the first truly English sovereign who had sat on the throne since the Conquest.  In his reign (1154-1189) the blending of the Norman and Saxon races was effected.  Villages and towns rose around the castles of great Norman nobles and the cathedrals and abbeys of Norman ecclesiastics.  Ultimately these towns obtained freedom.  London became a great city with more than a hundred churches.  The castles, built during the disastrous civil wars of Stephen’s usurped reign, were demolished.  Peace and order were restored by a legitimate central power.

Between the young monarch of twenty-two and Thomas, as a favorite of Theobald and as Archdeacon of Canterbury, an intimacy sprang up.  Henry II. was the most powerful sovereign of Western Europe, since he was not only King of England, but had inherited in France Anjou and Touraine from his father, and Normandy and Maine from his mother.  By his marriage with Eleanor of Aquitaine, he gained seven other provinces as her dower.  The dominions of Louis were not half so great as his, even in France.  And Henry was not only a powerful sovereign by his great territorial possessions, but also for his tact and ability.  He saw the genius of Becket and made him his chancellor, loading him with honors and perquisites and Church benefices.

The power of Becket as chancellor was very great, since he was prime minister, and the civil administration of the kingdom was chiefly intrusted to him, embracing nearly all the functions now performed by the various members of the Cabinet.  As chancellor he rendered great services.  He effected a decided improvement in the state of the country; it was freed from robbers and bandits, and brought under dominion of the law.