trials and temptations, and pointed out, with more
than fraternal tenderness, those insidious enemies
that came in the disguise of angels of light.
Only a man of his intuitions could have understood
the disinterested generosity of those noble women,
and the passionless serenity with which they contemplated
the demons they had by grace exorcised; and it was
only they, with their more delicate organization and
their innate insight, who could have entered upon his
sorrows, and penetrated the secrets he did not seek
to reveal. He gave to them his choicest hours,
explained to them the mysteries, revealed his own
experiences, animated their hopes, removed their stumbling-blocks,
encouraged them in missions of charity, ignored their
mistakes, gloried in their sacrifices, and held out
to them the promised joys of the endless future.
In return, they consoled him in disappointment, shared
his resentments, exulted in his triumphs, soothed
him in his toils, administered to his wants, guarded
his infirmities, relieved him from irksome details,
and inspired him to exalted labors by increasing his
self-respect. Not with empty flatteries, nor idle
dalliances, nor frivolous arts did they mutually encourage
and assist each other. Sincerity and truthfulness
were the first conditions of their holy intercourse,—“the
communion of saints,” in which they believed,
the sympathies of earth purified by the aspirations
of heaven; and neither he nor they were ashamed to
feel that such a friendship was more precious than
rubies, being sanctioned by apostles and martyrs;
nay, without which a Bethany would have been as dreary
as the stalls and tables of money-changers in the
precincts of the Temple.
A mere worldly life could not have produced such a
friendship, for it would have been ostentatious, or
prodigal, or vain; allied with sumptuous banquets,
with intellectual tournaments, with selfish aims,
with foolish presents, with emotions which degenerate
into passions Ennui, disappointment, burdensome
obligation, ultimate disgust, are the result of what
is based on the finite and the worldly, allied with
the gifts which come from a selfish heart, with the
urbanities which are equally showered on the evil
and on the good, with the graces which sometimes conceal
the poison of asps. How unsatisfactory and mournful
the friendship between Voltaire and Frederic the Great,
with all their brilliant qualities and mutual flatteries!
How unmeaning would have been a friendship between
Chesterfield and Dr. Johnson, even had the latter
stooped to all the arts of sycophancy! The world
can only inspire its votaries with its own idolatries.
Whatever is born of vanity will end in vanity.
“Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful, and
the end of that mirth is heaviness.” But
when we seek in friends that which can perpetually
refresh and never satiate,—the counsel which
maketh wise, the voice of truth and not the voice
of flattery; that which will instruct and never degrade,