of neglect; to forego the idea of having been ill-used
and contumaciously treated by an old friend. The
first thing to aggrandise a man in his own conceit,
is to conceive of himself as neglected. There
let him fix if he can. To undeceive him is to
deprive him of the most tickling morsel within the
range of self-complacency. No flattery can come
near it. Happy is he who suspects his friend of
an injustice; but supremely blest, who thinks all his
friends in a conspiracy to depress and undervalue
him. There is a pleasure (we sing not to the
profane) far beyond the reach of all that the world
counts joy—a deep, enduring satisfaction
in the depths, where the superficial seek it not,
of discontent. Were we to recite one half of
this mystery, which we were let into by our late dissatisfaction,
all the world would be in love with disrespect; we
should wear a slight for a bracelet, and neglects
and contumacies would be the only matter for courtship.
Unlike to that mysterious book in the Apocalypse, the
study of this mystery is unpalatable only in the commencement.
The first sting of a suspicion is grievous; but wait—out
of that wound, which to flesh and blood seemed so
difficult, there is balm and honey to be extracted.
Your friend passed you on such or such a day,—having
in his company one that you conceived worse than ambiguously
disposed towards you,—passed you in the
street without notice. To be sure he is something
shortsighted; and it was in your power to have accosted
him. But facts and sane inferences are
trifles to a true adept in the science of dissatisfaction.
He must have seen you; and S——,
who was with him, must have been the cause of the contempt.
It galls you, and well it may. But have patience.
Go home, and make the worst of it, and you are a made
man from this time. Shut yourself up, and—rejecting,
as an enemy to your peace, every whispering suggestion
that but insinuates there may be a mistake—reflect
seriously upon the many lesser instances which you
had begun to perceive, in proof of your friend’s
disaffection towards you. None of them singly
was much to the purpose, but the aggregate weight
is positive; and you have this last affront to clench
them. Thus far the process is any thing but agreeable.
But now to your relief comes in the comparative faculty.
You conjure up all the kind feelings you have had for
your friend; what you have been to him, and what you
would have been to him, if he would have suffered
you; how you defended him in this or that place; and
his good name—his literary reputation, and
so forth, was always dearer to you than your own!
Your heart, spite of itself, yearns towards him.
You could weep tears of blood but for a restraining
pride. How say you? do you not yet begin to apprehend
a comfort? some allay of sweetness in the bitter waters?
Stop not here, nor penuriously cheat yourself of your
reversions. You are on vantage ground. Enlarge
your speculations, and take in the rest of your friends,