engage attention, bitter ceaseless objurgation.
It never had a toy, or knew what a coral meant.
It grew up without the lullaby of nurses, it was a
stranger to the patient fondle, the hushing caress,
the attracting novelty, the costlier plaything, or
the cheaper off-hand contrivance to divert the child;
the prattled nonsense (best sense to it), the wise
impertinences, the wholesome lies, the apt story interposed,
that puts a stop to present sufferings, and awakens
the passion of young wonder. It was never sung
to—no one ever told to it a tale of the
nursery. It was dragged up, to live or to die
as it happened. It had no young dreams.
It broke at once into the iron realities of life.
A child exists not for the very poor as any object
of dalliance; it is only another mouth to be fed, a
pair of little hands to be betimes inured to labour.
It is the rival, till it can be the co-operator, for
food with the parent. It is never his mirth, his
diversion, his solace; it never makes him young again,
with recalling his young times. The children
of the very poor have no young times. It makes
the very heart to bleed to overhear the casual street-talk
between a poor woman and her little girl, a woman of
the better sort of poor, in a condition rather above
the squalid beings which we have been contemplating.
It is not of toys, of nursery books, of summer holidays
(fitting that age); of the promised sight, or play;
of praised sufficiency at school. It is of mangling
and clear-starching, of the price of coals, or of
potatoes. The questions of the child, that should
be the very outpourings of curiosity in idleness, are
marked with forecast and melancholy providence.
It has come to be a woman, before it was a child.
It has learned to go to market; it chaffers, it haggles,
it envies, it murmurs; it is knowing, acute, sharpened;
it never prattles. Had we not reason to say, that
the home of the very poor is no home?
There is yet another home, which we are constrained
to deny to be one. It has a larder, which the
home of the poor man wants; its fireside conveniences,
of which the poor dream not. But with all this,
it is no home. It is—the house of
the man that is infested with many visiters.
May we be branded for the veriest churl, if we deny
our heart to the many noble-hearted friends that at
times exchange their dwelling for our poor roof!
It is not of guests that we complain, but of endless,
purposeless visitants; droppers in, as they are called.
We sometimes wonder from what sky they fall.
It is the very error of the position of our lodging;
its horoscopy was ill calculated, being just situate
in a medium—a plaguy suburban mid-space—fitted
to catch idlers from town or country. We are
older than we were, and age is easily put out of its
way. We have fewer sands in our glass to reckon
upon, and we cannot brook to see them drop in endlessly
succeeding impertinences. At our time of life,
to be alone sometimes is as needful as sleep.