Few women with scientific tastes had the advantages which surrounded Miss Mitchell in her own home.  Her father was acquainted with the most prominent scientific men in the country, and in his hospitable home at Nantucket she met many persons of distinction in literature and science.

She cared but little for general society, and had always to be coaxed to go into company.  Later in life, however, she was much more socially inclined, and took pleasure in making and receiving visits.  She could neither dance nor sing, but in all amusements which require quickness and a ready wit she was very happy.  She was very fond of children, and knew how to amuse them and to take care of them.  As she had half a dozen younger brothers and sisters, she had ample opportunity to make herself useful.

She was a capital story-teller, and always had a story on hand to divert a wayward child, or to soothe the little sister who was lying awake, and afraid of the dark.  She wrote a great many little stories, printed them with a pen, and bound them in pretty covers.  Most of them were destroyed long ago.

Maria took her part in all the household work.  She knew how to do everything that has to be done in a large family where but one servant is kept, and she did everything thoroughly.  If she swept a room it became clean.  She might not rearrange the different articles of furniture in the most artistic manner, but everything would be clean, and there would be nothing left crooked.  If a chair was to be placed, it would be parallel to something; she was exceedingly sensitive to a line out of the perpendicular, and could detect the slightest deviation from that rule.  She had also a sensitive eye in the matter of color, and felt any lack of harmony in the colors worn by those about her.

Maria was always ready to “bear the brunt,” and could at any time be coaxed by the younger children to do the things which they found difficult or disagreeable.

The two youngest children in the family were delicate, and the special care of the youngest sister devolved upon Maria, who knew how to be a good nurse as well as a good playfellow.  She was especially careful of a timid child; she herself was timid, and, throughout her life, could never witness a thunder-storm with any calmness.

On one of those occasions so common in an American household, when the one servant suddenly takes her leave, or is summarily dismissed, Miss Mitchell describes her part of the family duties: 

“Oct. 21, 1854.  This morning I arose at six, having been half asleep only for some hours, fearing that I might not be up in time to get breakfast, a task which I had volunteered to do the preceding evening.  It was but half light, and I made a hasty toilet.  I made a fire very quickly, prepared the coffee, baked the graham bread, toasted white bread, trimmed the solar lamp, and made another fire in the dining-room before seven o’clock.