But when parental affection was extinguished, such
provision could only be secured by handing over the
infant and its portion to the guardianship of the
State. As children were troublesome and noisy,
the practice of giving them up to public officers to
be brought up in vast nurseries regulated on the strictest
scientific principles became the general rule, and
was soon regarded as a duty; what was at first almost
openly avowed selfishness soon justifying and glorifying
itself on the ground that the children were better
off under the care of those whose undivided attention
was given to them, and in establishments where everything
was regulated with sole regard to their welfare, than
they could be at home. No law compels us to send
our children to these establishments. In rare
cases a favourite will persuade her lord to retain
her pet son and make him heir, but both the Courts
and public opinion discountenance this practice.
Some families, like my own, systematically retain
their children and educate them at home; but it is
generally thought that in doing so we do them a wrong,
and our neighbours look askance upon so signal a deviation
from custom; the more so, perhaps, that they half suspect
us of dissenting from their views on other subjects,
on which our opinions do not so directly or so obviously
affect our conduct, and on which therefore we are
not so easily convicted of free choice” [heresy].
Here I inquired whether the birth and parentage of
the children sent to the public establishments were
registered, so as to permit their being reclaimed
or inheriting property.
“No,” he replied. “Inheritance
by mere descent is a notion no longer favoured.
I believe that young mothers sometimes, before parting
with their children, impress upon them some indelible
mark by which it may be possible hereafter to recognise
them; but such recognitions seldom occur. Maternal
affection is discountenanced as a purely animal instinct,
a survival from a lower grade of organisation, and
does not generally outlast a ten years’ separation;
while paternal love is utterly scouted as an absurdity
to which even the higher animals are not subject.
Boys are kept in the public establishments until the
age of twelve, those from ten to twelve being separated
from the younger ones and passing through the higher
education in separate colleges. The girls are
educated apart till they complete their tenth year,
and are almost invariably married in the course of
the next. At first, under the influence of the
theory of sexual equality, both received their intellectual
instruction in the same classes and passed through
the same examinations. Separation was soon found
necessary; but still girls passed through the same
intellectual training as their brothers. Experience,
however, showed that this would not answer. Those
girls who distinguished themselves in the examinations
were, with scarcely an exception, found unattractive
as wives and unfit to be mothers. A very much