In England, flowers have always been largely employed in the wedding ceremony, although they have varied at different periods, influenced by the caprice of fashion. Thus, it appears that flowers were once worn by the betrothed as tokens of their engagement, and Quarles in his “Sheapheard’s Oracles,” 1646, tells us how,
“Love-sick
swains
Compose rush-rings and myrtle-berry chains,
And stuck with glorious kingcups, and
their bonnets
Adorn’d with laurell slips, chaunt
their love sonnets.”
Spenser, too, in his “Shepherd’s Calendar” for April, speaks of “Coronations and sops in wine worn of paramours”—sops in wine having been a nickname for pinks (Dianthus plumarius), although Dr. Prior assigns the name to Dianthus caryophyllus. Similarly willow was worn by a discarded lover. In the bridal crown, the rosemary often had a distinguished place, besides figuring at the ceremony itself, when it was, it would seem, dipped in scented water, an allusion to which we find in Beaumont and Fletcher’s “Scornful Lady,” where it is asked, “Were the rosemary branches dipped?” Another flower which was entwined in the bridal garland was the lily, to which Ben Jonson refers in speaking of the marriage of his friend Mr. Weston with the Lady Frances Stuart:—
“See how with roses and with lilies
shine,
Lilies and roses (flowers of either sex),
The bright bride’s paths.”